Do you know the phrase, "I'm going to bend you over a barrel?" It's a little known fact that back in the wild west people who said that were homosexuals and they weren't threating in any way. In fact it was a pick up line to excite a man. Somehow some straight alpha men in the 20th century co-opted that phrase to mean, "I'm going to kick your ass." So, next time you hear that just rememeber what he's asking.